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It’s Kind of Like Beachball Coaching; Bouncing Back Ideas & Resisting Advice Giving

I once coached a CEO when one of their VPs interrupted to ask what colour the boss wanted the office painted.

The CEO offered their opinion and then refocused on our conversation. I responded, “Do you really feel that picking out paint colours is a wise use of your mental energy as CEO?” Their counter was, “I don’t stop to think about it much. If someone asks me for my opinion, then I give it to them.”

Oh, the double-edged sword of leadership. Senior leaders must become exceptionally good at making decisions with limited data and be comfortable just making the call. Overusing this style can create a check-in culture where the team becomes overly reliant on the boss’s opinion and hesitates to move without consultation.

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It's Kind of Like ..., Leadership, Meetings

It’s Kind of Like Coaching Poolside or Chairside; Coaching In The Moment or Another Time

Coaching can be intimidating to both novice and experienced leaders.

For the recently trained manager, there is pressure to provide good coaching to their team, but uncertainty and fear about how to do it correctly.

The truth is that bad coaching is better than no coaching, and the only way to improve is to keep experimenting with different tactics. I encourage leaders not to put a lot of pressure on themselves and to rarely, if ever, say, “Let me provide you some coaching on this.”

You don’t need to announce that you are coaching for it to be effective; it is better if you don’t.

Coaching can be done in the moment, like during a meeting, while observing a task, or in a more planned setting, like a one-on-one. Both approaches have benefits.

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